Hi, Thought of giving you some input on relationship issues. Nowadays, I am experiencing with a number of parents who come to me for advice based on astrological findings, have this relationship issues as a paramount one. They want to know if their children will have to go for a divorce or can join their spouse back. Almost all the cases, I found, the natives have lack of space in their heart.
What is the main reason for this evil of damaging the family system? Lack of understanding? Freedom form dependence emotionally? You can contemplate on this. Let us see it comparing it with trees.
Relationships are like trees:
My dear friends, have you ever been to any orchard? I am sure we all have seen at least a few of them like orange, mango, cashew, coconut, chikku and many more. Did you notice how these trees are planted? There is always a gap between any two grown up trees. Every tree needs some space to grow properly. It needs the right amount of light, soil, water, mineral and loving hands of a farmer. When all these needs are being taken care of properly, then only the tree grows the way the farmer wants it to be.
Similarly, all relationships too need some space to grow. They also need right amount of all ingredients including love and affection to take a proper shape. Any relationship is like the four pillars of a temple. They are together, but they can’t come very close to each other and if they do so, the walls of the temple would fall off resulting in its collapse. So all relationships need a proper space to grow!
A tree is planted today but bears fruits only after a particular period, when it reaches maturity.
Similarly, our relationships also bear fruits at a later date. We shouldn't expect anything right from the beginning.
Big trees give shelter to all passersby without any expectations. And I have noticed that true and matured relationships also provide mental, emotional and physical shelter (support) to all.
Deeper the roots, stronger the hold of a tree. Similarly deeper the understanding, stronger the relationship.
When the winds are blowing harsh, the trees sway in the direction of wind and only those who do so, survive. Others are uprooted. Similarly, there are occasions when we just need to overlook a few things, just let them go, just flow with the wind. Only such relationships pass the test of hard times and survive even in not so favorable conditions.
Thus friends! Relationships are like trees, if nurtured with utmost love and care, will bear sweet fruits of love, compassion, strong emotional bonding and care.
Please note the following:
“Single” and Relationship” are just titles. Your heart determines your true relationship status.
“To know when to go away and when to come closer is the key to any lasting relationship”
--Domenico Cieri Estrada
Healthy relationships are not perfect relationships, but they are balanced relationships. They are balanced by good and bad times, fights, forgiveness, mistakes, ecstasy and tranquility.
Astrologically, we used to review the status of Venus (Sukran) in every horoscope to decide the status of their pursuing their relationship with others. If this planet is affected then there will be relationship issues for them. WE always advise them to understand this aspect of their natural character and try to rectify them. This is just an attempt to overcome the issues becoming hard.
When Venus is posited in Navamsa at seventh from Karakamsa and at the same time it is cursing the native, then the native needs to carryout parihara for the same.
Have a Great Day.
